friends

george · Post by **george** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 12:46 am

ok i need your help!
have you ever see someone and then "stuck" with the idea of being mate with her/him?
i saw a year before a girl from uk in a ship( we both went on vacation). i liked her but as a friend( i was with an other girl). we started talking and spend 5 friendly days together!(my girl was home).
she gave me her e-mail and her mobile phone's number and i thought this will be the start of a friendship.
but after returning to her country never send me anything, not answering in my mails and text messages...
what should i do? maybe call her but tell what?

quirky · Post by **quirky** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 12:57 am

I am SO bad at interpersonal relationship advice......

Maybe she's just respecting the fact that you have a girlfriend where you are.

Filomena · Post by **Filomena** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 1:01 am

How do you really feel about her?

If this is just a friendship, why are you upset that she hasn't returned your calls? Do you see this turning into something more than friendship? Where does your girlfriend fit into all of this?

I know, I know! What a lot of questions to answer.

But George my boy, you have some soul searching to do!

george · Post by **george** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 1:14 am

maybe she is jealous..
i see her as a friend.stricktly!but i don't know if we hang out where could this lead..my girlfriend hates her-and i can see why.
i am loyal but i want to keep in touch with her..

quirky · Post by **quirky** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 1:18 am

my girlfriend hates her-and i can see why

OK, you WANTED something to happen? It kind of sounds like it.

george · Post by **george** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 1:21 am

no i just want her as a friend. it's weird, isn't it?

Clemmy · Post by **Clemmy** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 4:17 am

it is not weird to want to be just friends...

mav · Post by **mav** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 4:27 am

If it bothers your gf, it would be unwise to be friends with her.

george · Post by **george** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 3:11 pm

i agree but i want to know why she doen't reply. in the end..she gave me her numbers!...
should i call her? and tell what?

thecablegal · Post by **thecablegal** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 3:15 pm

I'd honestly just forget about her. I had someone who treated me like that, said he'd keep in touch, then never answered my texts. In the end, I forgot about him.

I saw him the other day, and completely ignored him. People like that really DO NOT matter!

george · Post by **george** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 3:18 pm

maybe you are right..i have to fight then with my couriosity!i am like Jim in "me, myself and irene". the good george says "forget her" and the bad one says "call her and ask her the reason why not answering".
but in the end i tend to to do what cablegal says...(i hope)..

george · Post by **george** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:28 pm

c'mon people I AM BURNING HERE!!!!!

Jimenem · Post by **Jimenem** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:43 pm

ask yourself whats more important. Your relationship with your GF or you friendship with this other girl. Pursue one OR the other. It you try to juggle the two, you'll wind up hurting more than just yourself. BE CAREFUL!!

fluffy · Post by **fluffy** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:49 pm

It was a holiday infatuation....................beautiful but impractical.......let it go...............

fluffy

Jimenem · Post by **Jimenem** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:55 pm

I'm with Fluffs on this one.