Whats your favorite possession? (collectible, sentimental)

Jimmie · Post by **Jimmie** » Tue Feb 07, 2006 7:11 pm

You don't regret anything? Not who it was with, where it happened, when it happened, or the after-shock things such as, am i pregnant?
You didn't worry at all??? Because as long as there is worry, then there is regret...i think.

Jimenem · Post by **Jimenem** » Tue Feb 07, 2006 7:33 pm

Jimmie wrote:
wonderbunny wrote:I think I miss my innocence; After hearing about the young women who skipped state. Yeah, she may not be too concerned now, but when you age. Things that didn't matter, and were 'exciting' because they were dangerous; later you realize how stupid it really is. Every person you sleep with you loose a little more of your soul and you become less trusting. The value of the act is minimalized. You can only lose your virginity once, so save it for your husband. Its a hell of a wedding present. Never been touched. What a concept
I COULDN'T AGREE MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me too!

Jimmie · Post by **Jimmie** » Wed Feb 08, 2006 12:56 am

It's really hard to believe that there are absolutely no regrets, i mean, i could go and have sex tomorrow with someone i really like (i'd say love, but im 16 and no one would believe me) and i would still regret it. All the worries about getting pregnant!
I think the only way someone could not regret it is if the person they had sex with ended up being the person they marry, even then, it won;t be as special...kinda like old news...
It reminds me of this girl i was talking to at school today. She said "if you're going to have sex, have sex and drink, cuz then at least you have an excuse to fall back on." I just stood there, in shock, thinking "ARE YOU KIDDING ME! LIKE THAT MAKES IT BETTER!!" And the sick part was out of all the people in the room (4) she's looking at me as if to say 'you know how it is.' AND I HAVE NO IDEA HOW IT IS! I've NEVER had sex, or gotten anywhere near enough to it to insinuate that i wanted to, and i've never drank except at church and a sip of my mom's wine at a wedding once. Frankly, both the girl and and smell of booze repulse and discust me.

fluffy · Post by **fluffy** » Wed Feb 08, 2006 12:59 am

Regrets such a negative emotion....it robs of hope and keeps you down in the past............regard it as a lesson learned then move on.......or it'll poison you..............

fluffy

quirky · Post by **quirky** » Wed Feb 08, 2006 1:01 am

Life's too short for regrets. I'm both reactionary and anticipationary.

It's best explained in "In My Life" by the Beatles.

Jimmie · Post by **Jimmie** » Wed Feb 08, 2006 1:10 am

But that doesn't mean that having some regret for past events isn't healthy. I can't imagine the life someone would lead if they didn't worry about regrets.

quirky · Post by **quirky** » Wed Feb 08, 2006 1:14 am

We live and learn.