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Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 12:17 pm
by fluffy
Absolutely
...............wild, hot exciting sex and wonderful, tender romantic lovemaking.............lol.....................depending on the mood.....lol
fluffy
heh
Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 11:43 pm
by babygirl_lace
Ive been with my man as I have said for almost five years, we are not married and for him that's not an option right now because as in most cases, commitment for a guy is scary...lol however, I can talk to him about ANYTHING and everything under the sun, I trust him and vice versa, but we still have those moments, those moments where we say things we dont really mean because we are in a spark of stupidity and anger...it happens man, its natural because no one person can be sane enough to not take out their frustrations on the person that is nearest and closest to them...if it's not him, it's me and my mother, or me and his son, or something...and its definately not necessarily expected or anticipated by any means, it just happens..people snap when things get too complicated or they feel overwhelmed. I can talk about it, but sometimes I am snappy and crabby and so are they...I just dont see it not happening, but more power to you Quirks I hope you find it and I hope it makes you incredibly happy
Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 1:51 am
by Niobe
That perfect relationship, no matter how much we might dwell on it in private moments, is just not 100% realistic most of the time.
I have a b/f who can simultaneously annoy me and exite me at the same time.
After 8yrs I can say he is the closest man to me I've ever known (child thrown in for good measure), but I still won't marry him (and I have been married before, briefly). Do I love him less? Not at all. Is he perfect? Not really. Do I love him? Nearly always. Do I like him all the time? Not really. Life is a sod sometimes and the partners we choose in our lives can sometimes enhance our presence in this world, or make us kick the skirting boards of life.
It's never straight forward is it?
Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 11:14 am
by fluffy
i guess for me my soulmate is the one who 'just knows'.........he'll accept me as i accept him..........there will be a recognition deep inside that's almost disconcerting.........we won't neccessarily understand why but something will hold us together........basically it'll feel as though it's out of our hands and we have to go with it..........because the sheer weight of feeling behind it will be almost addictive and neccessary..........
He'll instinctively know how to keep me in check and i'll be his strength when needed..............lol..........
(of course it would help if he loosks like Jimmy too.............lol)
lol....but as you know i'm a dreamer...........and sadly, dreams don't often come true.......
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fluffy
Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 1:38 am
by quirky
we won't neccessarily understand why but something will hold us together........basically it'll feel as though it's out of our hands and we have to go with it..........because the sheer weight of feeling behind it will be almost addictive and neccessary..........
Yup.
Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 2:34 pm
by fluffy
hooray........... at last we agree on something.........lol
fluffy